HEY PARENTS LISTEN UP!
Something not going
right during your child’s game?
The official is not
making the right calls?
What should you do or
say? Always
THINK before you act
or speak
1)
CHEER
don’t SNEER!
Only positive words should come
out of your mouth during a game. There is simply no place for negative comments
or criticism.
2)
WALK before you SQUAWK.
If you feel a sudden urge to yell
at the coach or the ref, take a walk and cool off before you say something that
will embarrass you- or your child.
3)
A YELL won’t make the
team JELL
Don’t bellow instructions to your
child from the sidelines. It’s boorish and your kid can’t hear a word your
saying, anyway!
4)
Don't sell them SHORT,
be a SPORT.
If the opposing team has played
well, give them a pat on the back. Nothing makes a kid feel more special than
when a parent form the opposing team tells him how well he played.
5)
Don't point BLAME when
they lose a GAME.
When your Childs team loses, don't
blame it on a bad call, a team mates error or anything
else. How will your child learn to accept responsibility if you don't?
6) Give ‘em a smile – not BILE.
Kids always respond to the coach
or parent who smiles- not to the adult who criticizes or scowls. Besides, your
child wants to see you having fun.
7)
RAISE with Encouragement.
That’s right,
the kids will “raise” their game and their efforts if you encourage them. Use
any achievement as an excuse for a compliment. They want to believe in
themselves. And you can help them.
8)
For pete’s SAKE, give the ump a BREAK!
Remember, most of the umpires and
referees are volunteers donating their time to your kids. And accept it: “ BAD” Calls are part of SPORTS.
9)
PARALYSIS by ANALYSIS.
Avoid replaying the game in the
car. Chances are its about the last thing your child
wants to talk about.
10) This I BESEECH, practice what you PREACH.
With too many pro athletes talking
trash and misbehaving, parents have to work extra hard to teach kids fair play.
Make sure your own sportsmanship is flawless. You’re the most important role
model kids have!